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6 Reasons NOT To Send A Dick Pic

Guys, as much as you think women want to see your manhood, think twice. Unsolicited dick pics are really not welcome, despite what you might think. Whether you're online dating or dating in real life, sending a picture of your dick when she's least expecting it can backfire.

WRITTEN BY Channa Bromley | Guest Writer | Jun 22 2018

Guys, as much as you think women want to see your manhood, think twice. Unsolicited dick pics are really not welcome, despite what you might think. Whether you're online dating or dating in real life, sending a picture of your dick when she's least expecting it can backfire. Online dating tips. Online dating advice. Dating advice for men.

You just had a fantastic first date. Great conversation, incredible chemistry. You’re excited to see each other again. You’re exchanging flirty texts. You get excited and send an unsolicited picture of your junk. Game Over. She pulls away, and that 2nd date never happens. What possibly could have gone wrong? Newsflash guys, a photo of your dick is not the magic love potion you believe it to be.

Here are six reasons you need never to send a dick pic again:

Kills the vibe!

Women and men are not the same; women are not visual creatures and don’t fall in love with their eyes. They require a mental and emotional connection. Sending a dick pic is presumptuous and kills the sweet, romantic, and flirty vibes. It destroys the buildup. There’s a reason that men WATCH porn and women READ harlequin novels. Women love the anticipation, the excitement of the mystery. Congrats- you just squashed that fantasy before it even began!

Dicks are not pretty.

From a purely aesthetic standpoint, they’re funnier looking than attractive. A penis IS super hot when it belongs to the man you love; there’s nothing sexier because it’s a part of him and a conduit to mutual pleasure. But just a random dick pic…doesn’t do much for most women. You will not find many women googling dick pics online like men do with the female body!

They reveal your true intentions.

You may SAY you want an “emotional connection” and that “sex just for sex is pointless”. However, sending crotch shots in what seemed an innocent conversation reveals what you truly want- sex- and you want it now. Thank you for your transparency. It’s easy to be a sweet talker, but you need to walk the walk too.

Other people could see them.

Women are social creatures. Surprisingly, we are not at home, twiddling our thumbs just waiting for a notification to pop up on our phones of your dick. We have careers, and we are often with our friends…or even our grandmothers! It’s 2018, and our phones are always out and viewable by the people nearby.

They all look the same.

Unless it’s REALLY big, or REALLY small or has some identifiable marks on it- in which case it’s probably best to build a foundation and emotional attachment before showing us… Furthermore, when you do share your dick with us for the first time, wouldn’t it be nice to be present and to see the look on our faces as we discover it- just like when you share gifts on special occasions and witness firsthand the joy it can bring.

Is your dick your best quality?

Are you kind, intelligent, funny? Lead with these characteristics! Showcase your INNER sex appeal by demonstrating who you are as a person. Don’t lead with your penis- it’s going to get you nowhere fast!

Channa Bromley

Relationship Expert and Matchmaker

Channa has over 15 years experience as a dating and relationship coach. She has spent the last 7 years consulting for the world’s leading matchmaking firm, has spoken about dating on morning news shows, a published author and holds several degrees in psychology and holistic studies. She specializes in total transformation - from loving yourself to falling in love to maintaining a fulfilling relationship. Channa has helped thousands of men and women make this transformation and guided them every step of the way. Throughout her professional experience, she has learned the science of what makes and breaks relationships and witnessed the emotional component behind the science first-hand. Channa’s extensive experience in dating and relationships make her well-prepared to help you discover or achieve any of your relationship goals.